Final Update: 10:55 P.M. - See below
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All updates will be added to the bottom of this post and the time it was updated will be above so you know there is new information. So just scroll down and read away!
We got the call that we could head to the hospital last night at about 6:00. I got home from a tough day at work at about 6:30 and we needed to leave around 7:00 to be here around 7:30 to 8:00. I grabbed some Asian Table (mmmmmmmm! Thai food!) on the way home for Alisha, her mom, and I and we had a quick dinner before heading out to Northside Atlanta.
We got to the hospital at about 8:00 and were given a room right at about a 8:45 last night and we got settled in – us and our 4,000 pounds of luggage that Alisha packed LOL! We literally have two large suitcases and one small one plus my laptop bag and her purse. It was insane lol.
They administered Cervidil (used to thin the cervix) last night at about 10:50 PM and inserted her IV. Contractions started within about 30 – 45 minutes. At 12:10 she had them give her a shot to reduce the pain so that she could sleep. Unfortunately for her it had to be given in her butt cheek LOL. I woke up, rolled over and saw her getting a shot and cringing as they gave it to her. LOL. I hear those hurt like hell. I am doing my best to never find out first hand. She finally got to sleep at about 2:00 AM
We were woken up at 5:10 to have the Cervadil removed. She was then allowed to take an hour to take a shower and get ready. At 6:10 they started her on Pitocin and her IV. The Petocin will be upped every 15 minutes throughout the day. At 6:15 AM they started her blood pressure cuff which will monitor her blood pressure every 15 minutes.
Stay tuned for updates! They will be on here first….
update: 10:00 AM: The Dr. came in about 20 minutes ago and tried to break her water. It did not break then but 15 minutes later she got up to go pee… yep… there it went. She stood there like a kid who just peed himself in the bathroom LOL.
update: 11:10 AM: Contractions are starting to get a little stronger now. Alisha is debating whether or not to get the pain medication through the IV. While they are not strong enough to get an epidural, she is trying to hold off on that as much as possible as it will slow the dialation and; therefore the delivery process in general. So she is going to try to get some pain medication through the IV first (can only get three of them) and then get the epidural a little later… obviously she is going to need to do so before it is too late though
update: 11:30 AM: Not labor related but we have just destroyed our previous hit record on the blog site and it is only 11:30
update: 12:05 PM: Picture link was added above. I will update everyone the same way when more pictures are added.
update: 12:40 PM: At 12:15 Alisha caved and finally asked for some pain medication through her IV. She was in a good amount of pain. It hit her like a ton of bricks though. She instantly felt dizzy and drunk feeling. It did not remove the pain entirely like the epidural will, but it helped. She is looking drowsy. All in all she is doing well and we are progressing. We are not sure about dialation or anything as the Dr. did not check her when he came back because she was not in enough pain to really warrant it.
update : 1:15 PM : Pain is getting quite a bit rougher. She is up to 26 out of a possible 37 milliliters per hour.
Alisha has asked for an epidural, and they said she could have that or try to do an additional dose of the pain medication through the IV. She decided to try the IV route but it is not working very well. She is in quite a bit of pain and is looking forward to the epidural which unfortunately she cannot have for an hour we think. She is hanging in there…
update: 1:35 PM: They said she can have the epidural whenever she is ready and she is ready. She will be getting it here in a little bit to alleviate the pain. You natural birth moms are a special breed LOL
update: 2:30 PM: They just administered the epidural. Alisha is no longer feeling the contactions like she was. She was taken back by how much the epidoral actually hurt. I, as you expected, was not in the room for that event. I was outta there! We are currently waiting on Dr. Graham to come back in to check to see how much she has dilated. She has not been checked since 9:00 AM when they broke her water.
update: 3:30 PM: The Dr. just left after checking her cervix and she is now 80% effaced and 1 cm. Dr. Graham thinks that it will be tonight for sure and not overnight or anything. Now that she got the epidural this process will slow down as well but the contractions are decently strong so that is a good thing.
update: 6:06 PM: The nurse just checked Alisha’s cervix and we are now at 3 cm dilated. Making progress … now get out Preston! LOL
update: 9:15 PM: The Dr. came in and checked Alisha again and and she is now 8 cm!!! The baby is still high so they are trying different positions but we are making progress. We need to get him down so that we can get him through the birth canal so we are hoping
update: 4:20 AM: Goodness… where do I start. It has been a heck of a day. After the 9:15 update we tried a few different positions to get Preston to come down further so that we could push. Unfortunately none of these did any good and the Dr. was convinced that Alisha’s pelvis was too small / his head was too big. Dr. Graham then recommended a C-section but gave Alisha the option. We agreed that we did not have too much hope for being able to deliver vaginally. They booked an Operating Room and prepared Alisha for surgery. I was a little worried as I was thinking I would pass out during normal delivery… what the heck was I going to do in an Operating Room?!? Many of you probably already know that I am an absolute WUSS with this kind of stuff. I just get queezy at the thought of stuff… now I was going to be there with it happening!
They took me with Alisha to the Operating Room after getting me all scrubbed up. I had the full Operating Room gear and waited outside while they got her all setup. While doing so I heard someone just loosing it. I was talking to Dr. Graham at the time and thought that it was Alisha. I asked him how much longer that was going to go on and he thankfully told me that there was someone who was “not all there” that was going in as well and that was what I was hearing. PHEW! There was no way I was going to stay composed with that going on. A few minutes later they brought me into the room. They brought me up to her head and began the procedure. Alisha was an absolute MESS. She was soo upset. She was freaked out by the fact she could feel the pressure, by the curtain being too close to her face and by the situation in general. I was somehow okay. I dont know if I knew that I had to be there for Alisha or what, but I was not only okay, I was great. I was talking to her to calm her down and the doctors were talking to me as well. They asked me to look while they pulled Preston out and I took pictures like crazy. Poor little guy had a heck of a cone head. This is expected to go away within 24 hours. Afterwards, Dr. Graham asked me to look at some anatomy… and I did! It was rather interesting. They brought Preston up to us so that Alisha could see him and said that Preston was looking healthy but they were going to take him to have him looked at a little further. Preston Michael Natic was 6 lbs 6 ounces and 20 inches born at 11:05 PM on Wednesday December 16th. He was doing a little grunting and reverse breathing which happens sometimes as fluid is in their lungs. Since he was not forced through the birth canal, that excess fluid was not squeezed out as much and therefore that happens sometimes. I went with Preston and Alisha went to recovery. They stated that he needed to go 2 hours with normal breathing patterns before he could be released to us. This felt like an eternity! I checked on Alisha and headed back to Preston to watch his first bath.
Afterwards, I went back to Alisha. They were releasing her from her recovery room to a post partum room. We called our family and friends back in and anxiously awaited 2:30 so they could release him (we hoped). Fortunately they did but we did not get him back to our room until almost 3:10. The family said their hellos and left shortly after to allow us time to rest. When they left Alisha spent about an hour trying to feed him. He ate for about 15 minutes and passed out. As we were ready to allow him to go to the nursery, we checked his diaper to find a mess
Daddy got his first lesson on this lovely task and changed his diaper. We then let him go to the nursery to get some sleep. They will bring him back every 3 hours for feedings so it will be a rough day tomorrow as well as we try to catch up on this lack of sleep we are working off of.
We have now been up for over 24 hours without a bit of sleep, and the night before I got about 4 hours of sleep and Alisha about 2 at best. We are just completely beat. We have had a rough day. Alisha was poked and prodded and most of it came with extreme pain. She was incredible to withstand all of this and I am honored to have her as wife and have a baby of our own with her. I am proud of you Alisha. I love you so much! You are going to be the best mommy in the world!
Thanks for keeping up with us. Our blog has never seen this much traffic… ever!!! Our previous record high was 147 hits in any 24 hour period (12:00 AM- 11:59 PM) which was the day of her miscarriage just over a year ago. Here we are today absolutely DESTROYING that number with a total of 903 hits yesterday and there have been another 35 hits since midnight. Yes you read that right. That is incredible!!! Thank you to all of our friends, family, facebook friends, and blog stalkers for your interest and support. I am glad to report that we are all doing well and are healthy.
Good night and stay tune for pictures tomorrow once I get some energy back.
-The Natic Family-
update: 3:00 PM: More pictures have been added including pictures of Preston.
update: 10:55 PM: This will be the final update for this post. All others will be a new post above this one. More pictures have been added to the Labor and Preston album.